Sunday, August 25, 2013

Two posts in one day??????

Just wanted to update that SM was blessed with a baby girl. I am so happy for him and A.

It is true that we have drifted apart after he got married. I put it down to him discovering life with someone new, someone he loves. He had always been an important part of my life - my rock of support at times. And it was hard for me to take in the beginning that I just could not call him up at whatever hour I like as I used to do in the past. Maybe we don't share as much as we did, but I would like to believe we still wish nothing but the best for each other.
Like I said before, life goes on.....


Hiya

I have been guilty of neglecting my blog. I just do not have the energy at the end of the day to gather my thoughts- yes, I must be growing old.
So many things happening. He has gone for 3 months to start his business - I am alone now with the elf for one week till the sister comes. I miss him already.
I have taken up clay and I am becoming  quite good at it - see, age does not mellow my immodesty! The condo has an oven so we are always baking.
And we bought a kitchen aid stand mixer which costs a fortune- din't ask me why..we end up buying stuffs we can ill-afford..but in the end, it is just money...it will come and go...
To borrow a phrase from a song:
Shiga daba punshini
Nungngai thokshi keidouge

Roughly translated:
Life is going to end one day
Why not enjoy it

For a change, I turned money wise and invested in an education policy for the elf. Shelled out enough to make my bank balance groan but at least I can rest assured now that he is provided for. Also, we took out life insurance policies. Age is catching up with me - why else would I even think of death and long term disability and other stuff like that?

Work is, well, work. It goes on...and life, well, life is life.. It has to go on...